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Great Love in the 21st Century : A Path to Intimacy

is a book about coming home to ourselves and one another in love.

It explores true intimacy


  • with oneself: Into Me I See

  • with a beloved other: Into You I See and Into Me I Let You See

  • with the world: We Are All Dreamers

  • with Nature and the Divine


The path is illuminated throughout with practices and conversations with people exploring their own stories of intimacy. 


Virginia St. Claire is trained as a pastoral counselor and spiritual director with a Master of Divinity and decades of practical experience.   She has married over a thousand couples—mostly on the beaches of Hawaii—and counseled several hundred couples and individuals in their journey to loving themselves and one another.

Everyone Loves this Book


“A wonderful roadmap to self discovery—supportive, humorous, and knowledgeable… For anyone seeking to deepen and broaden relationships of any kind—read this book!”

“As I made my way through the book, savoring each section and exercise, I appreciated the tone and voice of the author. It felt like a kind and wise friend was speaking to me. St. Claire’s words are warm, humble, respectful of the reader, clearly presented and extremely helpful.”

"If you’re looking for a fun, sweet, step-by-step guide to self-love and intentional relationship, I HIGHLY recommend Great Love in the 21st Century.”

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To contact Virginia by email click here.

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